We have very similar thoughts on this, and we're at similar points of our lives. Agree re: being single and looking. But then...all I have to do is spend a little time on Eharmony or Match.com and I flee back to the fannish arenas. If I see another, "What I'm most passionate about: friends, family, good food," answer, I'll go mad(er)! I probably have an anuerism if someone actually answered with something like, "Friends, Family, Rapier Fencing."

Two things I hate about furry fandom (besides chronic Asperger's Syndrome and overt pornography): 1.) Infantalism (using words like, "Wuf," "wuv," "fwendwy" or acting like pre-schoolers) and 2.) all the uninvited touching.